From highway 101 in south San Jose take the Yerba Buena exit.  Go east on Yerba Buena, following the signs to Evergreen Community College .  Yerba Buena goes around and up and down and through a few traffic lights, but eventually one comes to a large intersection and traffic light at San Felipe Rd.   Go right (south) on San Felipe Rd. (after a short distance on San Felipe notice the Evergreen Community Center on your left).  Continue south on San Felipe to the first traffic light, at Villages Parkway .

Turn left into Villages Parkway and proceed about 1/4 mile to the Villages entrance gate.  Take the left lane (visitors' entrance) and introduce yourself to the person on duty.  Indicate that you are participating in the Sociable Singles dinner at the Foothill Center..  You should be passed through with no problem.